Upfront, I make bold to say that there is no long lasting relationship that did not require (or equally demanded) work from both parties involved.
The two lovebirds must be up and doing- be actively, positively and creatively involved in nurturing and building the relationship into that which is their hearts’ desires and expectations over it. Both of them must strive and work at their relationship giving themselves wholly to its success.
Secondly, time is of essence when it comes to building a long lasting relationship. Every available time and opportunity must be judiciously utilized in adding value and moving the relationship a step forward in the right and desired direction.
As much as it will be advised not to rush things nor be too over serious, it is equally in place to state that the two individuals in the relationship must avoid procrastination when there are issues to be treated or matters to be attended to.
Communication is a major element in building a long lasting relationship and as such both parties must never let go of this great tool whether close or far apart from each other. You need to stay/keep in touch with one another.
There are several ways and means by which two lovers can communicate- verbal and non-verbal; over the airwaves (radio), celluloid (television/movies); instant messaging and mobile chat; through contact and/or touch when close; gifts and presents, etc.
Strive by making effort to understand one another no matter the circumstance whatsoever. This not only increases the chances of oneness between the two of you, it helps reduce friction and equally serves to promote peace and harmony which is required for the incubation of ideas thus promoting cohesion and synergy of resources available from the two parties involved in the love relationship.
Love for each other must be plain, sincere, genuine and of the heart. It is of no use when you are relating with each other under a cloak of insincerity, suspicion and mystery. Not only does it consume as well as waste time, effort and resources, it drains/exasperates the two individuals involved in the relationship. At the end of the day, break up results.
Both parties develop a relationship dysfunction where it becomes tough and challenging for them to accept love and trust any other person having the good intention to enter into a relationship with them afterward.
Work (effort), Communication, Love, Understanding and Time are all proven master techniques which when applied altogether will guarantee you a long lasting relationship.