building relationships that lasts- basic things to consider
the desire and goal of almost everyone is to successfully build a relationship that lasts; however, it's not many people who end up achieving this.
while it can be said that you gave your relationship your best shot or that in spite of all you sacrificed and have had to put up with, your relationship appears far from how you envisioned it to be.
it is very probable that there a few relationship building blocks you ignorantly left out of the mix. and until you get all the basic ingredients required, it is impossible to submit you have a full course meal/menu prepared and served.
for a start, what are a few basic ingredients you require to build a relationship?
1. two people who genuinely have interest to get involved in a relationship together.
now, it does not stop at the point of mutual interests alone. there are other important ingredients required of you and also your partner or lover.
2. having a firm grasp of what or all a relationship requires or that it entails.
often times, the general assumption is that of.... "i know how to do a relationship." for a bubble burst, it will not be a gainsay to submit, "no, you do not!"
3. re_assessing the template against which you rate, judge and compare a relationship with or by.
there is every tendency that personal real life experiences, exposures, and encounters has/have to a greater dimension that you do not consciously reckon with continues to influence ad in turn impact on the way and manner you do or that you carry on with the relationship(s) you have gotten into.
at this juncture, it is advisable that you ruminate over the little or much information shared already.
to recap:
1. 2 people having mutual interest to get involved in a relationship together.
2. having a firm grasp of what being in a relationship entails.
3. how sound, healthy, robust and vast is the template you have on/of how to do a relationship?
till i shall come your way again or until when our paths cross next, here is leaving you with the message- it is possible to build a relationship that lasts and that can be enjoyed and fulfilling.